Monday, October 31, 2011

Magic Moments Trip - Day 3 (Oct. 11)


We spent Day 3 at Sea World.  After entering the park, we rushed to the Whale & Dolphin Theater to see “Blue Horizons.”  Other shows we attended were “Clyde and Seamore Take Pirate Island” at the SeaLion & Otter Stadium and “One Ocean” at the Shamu Stadium.  There was A LOT of walking.  The park is fairly large, and you often have to race to the opposite side of the park to get to the next show.

We stopped at the “Sharks Underwater Grill & Bar” for lunch.  One wall of the restaurant is the side of the shark aquarium.  The kids enjoyed watching the sharks & other fish swim by as we ate.  Afterward, the kids fed shrimp to the sharks in the tank outside the restaurant.



We also enjoyed many of the other rides and attractions in the park, and Criss and the kids had a great time on the ropes course.




One of the highlights of the day was feeding the dolphins at Dolphin Cove.  Autumn’s GKTW button got us into the feeding at no charge.  They walked by and asked how many trays we had purchased.  I said I didn’t know, that we had gotten in with Autumn’s button.  She said, “You get as many as you want then,” and left us four trays.  J  We all had such fun holding the fish up for the dolphins and then petting them under the chin.  (They said the dolphins don’t like to be touched on the top of the nose.) 


A couple of them even plopped themselves on the ledge in front of us and let us rub their sides.


Tuesday evening we attended the Poolside Cookout & Bash at the GKTW Village.  We ate grilled hamburgers, and the kids ran through the fountains and played in the pool.  The pool was VERY cold.  Silas hardly noticed, but Autumn didn’t stay in very long.

Give Kids the World (GKTW) has a snow cone machine that they bring out for all of their parties.  The kids couldn’t have any of the syrup because of their food allergies/intolerances, but they loved eating the ice!

Janel

Friday, October 28, 2011

Magic Moments Trip - Day 2 (Oct. 10)


We were very fortunate to have arrived just as some pretty bad weather was leaving the area.  Remnants of the flooding and rain were still present when we arrived on Sunday.  Storms and rain were still expected for the next several days, but we never saw any of it.

At the orientation, they gave the four of us three day park hopper passes at Disney, 2 day tickets to Universal Orlando, and one day at Sea World.  There was also a list (several pages long) of other parks that we could visit for free (or at a discount).  Despite the bad weather that was expected for the day, we decided to start at Magic Kingdom.

Before we headed to Disney World, there were some special activities Monday morning at the Give Kids the World Village (GKTW).  Several days a week, some of the local parks send characters to GKTW to visit the families that are staying there for the week.  On Monday morning, Mickey, Minnie, Goofy, Pluto, and Mary Poppins came to visit.  Autumn was told that she could bring the Mickey they gave her the day we arrived and Mickey and Minnie would sign it for her.  They said that this is something special they do just for kids in the village.  (I guess they’ll only sign their names on paper in the parks.)




Next, we found our way to Magic Kingdom.  We’d tried to plan ahead, but it still took some time to come up with a plan for the day.  We had passes for free parking and stroller rentals.  After all that was taken care of, our first stops were at a parade making its way down Main Street and a special show at Cinderella’s Castle.  From there, we visited most of the attractions in Fantasyland and Tomorrowland.


Since it was Columbus Day (and the kids were out of school), it was pretty crowded.  Thankfully, we had been given a pass that let us skip most of the lines (or at least let us get in the Fast Pass line).  After every ride, Silas asked, “Can we do that one again?”  Since Criss can get a little queezy, I was the official delegate for all of the spinning rides.




One thing I didn’t do a good job of the first day was realizing where all of the characters were.  We ran into Rapunzel and found out that Autumn’s pass also let us skip the character lines.  (Wow!!!)  You can imagine some of the looks we got.  I just tried not to look at the people who’d been standing in line for 20-30 minutes (with a tired child) just to see one character.  Rapunzel was so sweet to the kids!  Later, Silas’ eye lit up when he got to meet Buzz Lightyear.  Another freebie – GKTW gave us a special photo card.  We could have as many pictures taken as we wanted (by the Disney World photographers).  When we got home, I could order a CD of all of the pictures at no cost.  (That alone normally costs $150+.)




The park closed early that day (for Mickey’s Not So Scary Halloween Party).  We chose to attend Mayor Clayton’s Hare Raising Halloween Extravaganza at GKTW.  The kids changed into their Halloween outfits (Cinderella & a football player), and we headed to the party.  The kids enjoyed climbing into a police car, motorcycle, and fire truck.  They also made crafts and played games. 




There was also a racecar the kids could sit in.  Since the door on a racecar doesn’t open, the man had to help the kids in through the window.  While he was being pulled out of the car, Silas told the man, “We use the door handle on our car.”  It was hilarious!


We ended with a train ride and then headed to the villa for the evening.  Another fun day!

Janel

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Magic Moments Trip - Day 1 (Oct. 9)

We’re back!  Autumn’s Magic Moments trip to Disney was October 9-15.  I’m going to try to write about all that we did each day.  So, today, I’ll start with Day 1.

We’ve been on “free” trips before that ended up costing us a lot of money – but not this trip.  Magic Moments & Give Kids the World Village provided everything.  They flew us to Orlando, got us a rental van, gave us a place to stay (that provided free meals), gave us money to pay for meals while we were in the parks, gave us tickets to several parks, and even gave Autumn spending money.  And we had such an amazing time!

The graduate class I’d been taking was scheduled to be completed the Friday while we were gone, so I worked non-stop the week before we left to finish the work for the class.  It was such a relief when I finally finished and began packing for the trip.  We checked three bags, and carried several more.  I had to carry some of the kids’ food with us, and I could not risk it getting lost or smooshed in the checked luggage.  (Our luggage never tends to fair well on airplanes.)  I also had to keep the medicines, etc. in a safe place.


This was the kids’ first time to fly, and it was so much fun!  I sat with Silas and Nana (my mom) on the way down.  Criss sat with Autumn and Papa (my dad).  Just as I thought, Silas loved looking out the window as we flew.  When we landed in Orlando, everyone chuckled as he called out, “We’re here!”

Once we exited the plane, someone from Give Kids the World was there to greet us, help us find our luggage, and take us to the rental van.  There was a whole row of vans, and we got to pick the one we wanted.  Autumn chose blue.  That ended up being a good thing.  It was much easier to find in all of the large parking lots throughout the week.


We navigated our way to the Village where we were greeted, given some introductory information, and taken to our villa - #290.  They gave Autumn a stuffed Mickey Mouse and Silas a Shamu.  When we arrived at our villa, the kitchen table was filled with even more gifts for the kids.  (They tell you to bring an extra – empty – bag with you so you’ll have room to take all of the toys home with you.  They were not exaggerating!)


We mostly hung around the Village for a while so I could attend the Orientation meeting where they give you all of your tickets for the week and go over everything you need to know.  There’s SO much to do in the village itself.  They have several places to eat, an ice cream parlor, a train, a golf course, their own carousel, and more.


The kids “made” pillows at the Pillow Tree in The Castle of Miracles.  Then, Autumn gave her star to the Star Fairy to place in the castle with the other stars from all of the wish recipients who have stayed in the Village.


Another neat thing is that the Village has video cameras that they will let you use for the week.  You just give it back to them before you leave, and they give you a disc with your videos from the week.  (So nice!)  Since we don’t have a video camera at home, it was the perfect opportunity to get the kids on tape.

That night, we took the kids to Old Town Park (a permanent outdoor fair near the Village) to let them play for a while before calling it a day.

Janel

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Opinions Needed

A topic that I’m very passionate about, yet have not had time to write about on the blog, is the need for the Christian community to find ways to better reach those with special needs.  I’ll have to share my thoughts on that another day, but for now, I could use your help.

I have been asked by Dr. Don Hawkins, President of Southeastern Bible College, to assist in a radio interview on the topic of “Ministering to Those with Disabilities.”

What has been your experience with churches and private schools ministering to those with special needs?  What good ideas have you seen/experienced?  What negative experiences have you had?  Share anything you feel is relevant – good or bad.  You can comment on this post or email me directly.

Thanks!
Janel

“Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.”  Matthew 25:40

Friday, September 23, 2011

Something to Celebrate & A New Favorite

Today is the two year anniversary of Autumn’s adoption.  We were her foster parents for 3 ½ years before that, making her part of our family for about 5 ½ years now.  I am so thankful for how far she’s come since we first met her, and I look forward to seeing even greater things in her future.

To celebrate, we gave her a bag of candy from Indie Candy in Mountain Brook.  It looks like this is going to be one of my new favorite places.  It’s the only place I’ve ever found that has candy that his gluten, milk, & CORN free.  It’s an absolute miracle!  She was thrilled this morning.  If you have a child with multiple food allergies or sensitivities, you MUST check out their website.  I haven’t tried it, but I’m pretty sure they offer shipping.  I’m not sure about international ordering, but you can ask them.

I bought her a chocolate teddy bear, a bon-bon, gummy animals, suckers, etc.  The people who work there are SO nice and super helpful.  If any of you are on the Feingold diet, they have foods that can be eaten on state 1 and stage two of the diet.

We love you, Autumn!

Janel

Thursday, September 22, 2011

30 Things About Living With Mito You May Not Know

One update I forgot to share in the last post...  Silas' local GI ran a diagnostic panel for Inflammatory Bowel Disease.  (It's not 100% but fairly reliable.)  Silas' bloodwork was not consistent with IBD.

In my last post, I mentioned that this week is Mito Awareness Week.  Inspired by this blog, here is my list:
1.      The mitochondrial disease our children are affected by is:  Autumn has a Complex I dysfunction.

2.      Our children were diagnosed with it in the year:  Her original muscle biopsy in May of 2008 showed low activity for Complex I.  (It took nearly a year to get the results.)  Since the first biopsy was frozen, the neurologist had us do a second (fresh) muscle biopsy (in August of 2010) to confirm.

3.      But they have had symptoms since:  Autumn had signs of gross motor delay since we first met her at 9 months.  Other symptoms took a little longer to notice.

4.      The biggest adjustment our family has had to make is:  Going to countless doctor visits and therapies in addition to the numerous procedures she’s been through.  I think she’s been put to sleep 8 times already.  When she was younger and in Early Intervention, we had 3-4 appointments or therapies each week for several years.

5.      The mito gene our family has is:  Since Autumn is adopted, it is even more difficult for them to find the genetic mutation.  They have checked for the most common ones and have not found it thus far.

6.      I explain mitochondrial disease to others that inquire by:  I say the doctors always describe mitochondria as the “powerhouse of the cell.”  They are involved in just about everything your body does.

7.      Most people assume:  That she’s okay because she doesn’t look sick or that she’s better because she doesn’t have to use her walker any more.

8.      The hardest part about mornings are:  Getting her to eat breakfast!

9.      The hardest part about nights are:  We use to have problems getting her to settle down at night (or waking up screaming in the middle of the night).  But, that’s going well right now.

10. Each day our children take:  Autumn takes five different medicines or supplements daily.  She takes a total of 13 different tablets/doses.  The medications are taken throughout the day during four different time slots.

11. Regarding alternative treatments we:  She sometimes sees a chiropractor.  He’s helped with general congestion (ears and chronic cough) as well as potty training.

12. A mito-related organization I support is:  Just starting to learn about all of the groups.

13. Mitochondrial disease affects our children’s education by:  Autumn has an IEP and receives speech and physical therapy services at school.

14. People would be surprised to know:  How much effort it takes to keep her regulated and how much work it has taken to get her to where she is today.  People would also be surprised by how loud she is at home – she’s so quiet everywhere else.

15. The hardest thing to accept about mitochondrial disease has been:  The unknown.  Any illness can trigger an irreversible progression of the disease.

16. Something we were never sure our children could do with their illness that they did was:  Walk a mile!  Autumn was signed up for the Mercedes Kids’ Marathon last spring, but she ended up in the hospital with complications from the flu.  She did, however, get to participate in a “Miles for Missions” walk organized by our church.  We weren’t the fastest two out there, but we made it to the finish line.  She really slowed down about halfway through, but she never complained.

17. The awareness about mito:  Is very hard to find.  The information about each form is very limited.

18. Something we really miss doing since affected by mito is:  Since both kids have so many food intolerances/digestive issues, I miss fixing one dinner that the entire family can eat.  I miss the days I could leave the house and not worry about having enough food to keep everyone fed while we’re gone.

19. It was really hard to have to give up:  We knew Autumn had health concerns when she moved in with us.  I’m not sure we every “gave up” anything.

20. A new hobby they have taken up:  Autumn has really enjoyed learning to read.  She is also very crafty and loves to create things.

21. If they could have one day of feeling normal again they would:  Autumn has a lot of food intolerances.  My guess is that she would want to eat junk food all day.  J

22. Mito has taught us:  To appreciate every small victory and treasure the good days.

23. Want to know a secret? One thing people say that gets under my skin is:  Autumn has a lot of food intolerances, but she’s also very picky (a lot of it related to her sensory processing issues).  I tried to talk with the neurologist about the problems I’m having with Autumn suddenly deciding not to eat certain foods any more.  She said, “Well, just don’t let her.”  I’d like to see her try it.  I’ve learned that there are certain things that you can’t make a child do.  Eating is one of them.

24. But I love it when people:  Comment on her positive attributes – her great smile, her resourcefulness and determination.

25. My favorite motto, scripture, quote that gets me through tough times is:  Psalm 73:26, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”  There are many more…

26. When someone is diagnosed I’d like to tell them:  We’ll try to figure it out together.

27. Something that has surprised me about life with mito is:  All the wonderful people we’ve met along the way.

28. The nicest thing someone did for us was:  Magic Moments granting Autumn a wish – a trip to Disney World!

29. I’m involved with Mitochondrial Disease Week because:  I hope to help someone else find their way through this maze.  I also want to help educate those who know someone with mito.

30. The fact that you read this list makes us feel:  Grateful.  If you made it all the way to #30, I appreciate your support!
Janel

Monday, September 19, 2011

Catching Up & Mito Awareness Week


My hopes of catching up the blog once the kids started back to school have been pushed aside by daily tasks and activities.  I have a master’s degree in Elementary Education, and I’m in the process of adding an endorsement in Special Education.  I have one more class to take, and then I will student teach in the Spring.  The online course I’m taking is squeezed into 8 weeks, so I’ve been working on that constantly.

I’ve mentioned before that I sometimes work as adjunct faculty at SEBC.  I have taught a class on Children’s literature every other spring for several years now.  A few weeks before school started, they contacted me to see if I’d be willing to teach Curriculum Development this fall.  I was glad to do it.  However, the first time you teach a course, it takes a lot of time to pull it all together.  So, between taking a course through Liberty and teaching a new course at SEBC, I haven’t had time for much else.

It also didn’t help that Autumn ended up sick at home for three days of her first full week at school.  I have mentioned the new (or increased) medications they are trying with her.  It is going well so far.  I am seeing some small improvements in language and gross motor activities.  That is encouraging.  We see her neurologist again next week, and we’ll see what she has to say.  The immunologist redid the ANA Test, and it came back positive a second time.  The NK function test also showed low resistance to candida (yeast).  We’ll have to see what he says about everything at our next visit. 

Silas seems to be adjusting pretty well to Kindergarten.  We have his week long appointment on South Carolina scheduled for the end of the year.  We’re just trying to keep him steady until then.  We saw his GI doctor here in town a few weeks before school started to get some forms, etc. signed for school.  He basically said to just come back when we need him.  He doesn’t know what else to do.

Not too much longer until our Magic Moments trip to Disney World.  I’ll definitely have to write about that one.  J


September 18-24 is Mitochondrial Disease Awareness Week.  It can be very difficult to find helpful information about Mito.  I ran across the blog of a mom that has three kids with Mito.  The information she shares has been so helpful.  I am putting links to some of her posts below if you’d like to learn a little bit more about the disease.


Over the weekend, we were sitting together and talking with the kids.  I asked Silas if he thought he might want to play some kind of sport one day.  He said “Yes,” so I asked what he might like to play.  He said, “Golf.”  It was very humorous because no one in our family plays golf, we don’t watch it on TV, and the only golf experience he’s ever had is one night at a putt-putt type of place – and he didn’t even like it.  I just had to laugh.

As always, thanks for reading!

Janel

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Life Without Food

Earlier this year, I came in contact with a local mom whose son has eosinophilic esophagitis (EE).  It is in the same group of diseases that they will be testing Silas for at the end of the year.  EE mostly affects the esophagus while EGE (the one Silas might have) mainly affects the stomach and small intestine.

Since we were first introduced, Victoria and I have had the opportunity to meet several times.  Two of these times included the kids, and it was nice for Silas to meet someone that has severe food problems like he does.  Over the summer, The Birmingham News printed an article about the family.  And now, the September issue of Birmingham Parent has published another article about the DeLanos.  It is titled, “Life Without Food:  The Struggles of Children with Eosinophilic Disorders.”  I thought they did a great job on the article, and I hope you will take a minute to read it.  It’s on pages 14-16.

Hopefully I will have time to write more soon.  Thanks for reading!

Janel

Friday, August 12, 2011

Blessings #30-60


July 26, 2011
1.   Finding a lost book
2.   Cereal poured with love
3.   Happy helpers
4.   Big sis reading a book to her brother
5.   Software that installs on the first try (even with dial-up) J
6.   A true friend
7.   Making new friends
8.   Meeting others with similar health concerns
9.   God’s mercies – Lamentations 3:22-23, “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”
July 27, 2011
10.        Open doors
11.        Our Magic Moments trip
12.        A Pepsi, cold and refreshing
13.        Smiling kids on a slip-n-slide
14.        God’s guidance – Isaiah 30:21, “And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, ‘This is the way, walk in it,’ when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left.”
August 10, 2011
15.        The first day of school
16.        Kids giddy with anticipation
17.        Freshly cut hair
18.        Friendly new faces
19.        New items for school – clothes, book bags, and more
20.        Kids growing day by day
21.        DSL & the time it saves
22.        Beds carefully made by little hands
23.        Silence
24.        Streams in the desert – “He turns a desert into pools of water, a parched land into springs of water.”  Psalm 107:35
August 12, 2011
25.        Silas waking up this morning with a sparkle in his eyes
26.        Piggytale  Fridays (The only time Autumn ever wants/asks me to fix her hair)
27.        Freshly washed clothes
28.        Job opportunities
29.        Passing the VCLA (for my graduate studies)
30.        A good book
31.        God’s presence – “…For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”  Joshua 1:9
Janel